The confused me, who can drag me out

liyanyan
When I??came to this crowed city-Shenzhen, at first I feel so excited because I'm close to the most prosperous city . However , I??survial? ?so awful, because my job is not confirmed, I alwalys no money ,even more ,I he no more best friends who I can trust(except my colleague), no lover,my classmate development in my hometown, just lee me alone to strive in this city.??So many people in this city, however we are not familliar with??each other ,and don't know how to know more about friends. I missing my best friends and my dear father and my mother.When I meet happens, I he to??fix it out by myself, I always felt helplessness here. What should I do ? should I keep on going here ,why I don't know anything about for this city .
2014-04-16 601阅读
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I understand how difficult it can be to adjust to a new city, especially when everything is unfamiliar and you do not have any close friends or family around. Here are a few suggestions that may help you out:

1. Make an effort to meet new people: You can join social groups or clubs that interest you, attend community events or take a class to meet new people. This way, you can make friends with similar interests and hobbies.

2. Improve your language skills: If you're not fluent in the local language, it could be difficult to communicate and make connections with people. You can consider taking courses to learn or improve your language skills to help you connect with locals.

3. Focus on your job: It's essential to secure a stable job and stable income, so that you can focus on other aspects of your life without financial stress weighing you down. This can also help in building your professional network and meeting new people.

4. Stay connected with your loved ones back home: Despite the distance, you can keep in touch with your family and friends through various communication tools like video chat, instant messaging, or social media. It's essential to maintain your relationships and have a support system.



Remember, it takes time to settle into a new city, but with a willingness to put yourself out there and make an effort, you can overcome the initial challenges and create a new life for yourself.
2023-06-12
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  • Mukesh2
    刚刚毕业的学生这是我们最难得时刻---没有恋人的呵护,没有家人的帮助,没有好朋友的陪伴。。
    但是你要明白这是我们的转折时刻,过去了这个坎一切都好了,我们会成长。
    一直认为在我们没有成功之前,自己所经历的苦都是值得的,我们不需要别人的同情。
    因为成功之后,你会笑着说出你曾经吃过的苦。这就是成长。
    2014-04-19
  • Moniker
    all things are difficult in the beginning.so we should strive for it constantly not say give up .
    2014-07-23
  • Moniker
    just believe yourself ,as long as you try your best to do this thing ,you must he a good harvest !!!
    2014-07-23
  • Moniker
    as you know ,it is so difficult for all fresh people to stick to this way of foreign trade .
    2014-07-23
  • Moniker
    Dear friend ,don't be frustrated ,all of us are on the way .
    2014-07-23
  • lee21
    Thank you for your kind suggests, thanks for you caring about me ,thanks for you all the time .Your words make me feel warm in my heart,  it sems like  thatI he lot of feiesds who I can trust.   


    Everyone know the stronger, however, only  by understand this sense will light up temporary hope,how to start will be  a big question.Should I continue to do foreign trade ? Does this line he the

    promising road?
    2014-04-20
  • Sandy.Liu
    hey, there. hope things getting better today, people should learn to be independence
    2014-04-20
  • San.Rong.Lee
    Darling,
    The life is too short, we never know what's going to hanppen.
    No rose without a thorn. And always, life brings us so many troubles and dismay. But, it must not be a reason why we say give up.
    All of them just the stepping-stone.
    Be strong and keep going and smile.
    You will be successful !
    2014-04-19
  • lee21
    dont be that upset . I found a new job in Guangzhou, the same situation like yours. But I find new friends here, all my collegues are quite kind. I feel warmful and happy here. Dont push yourself to be someone, just walk step by step, oneday ,all those efforts will make you successuful. Trust yourself, and live happy life. Best wishes, dear friend.
    2014-04-18
  • Micheal-hung
    这是一个习惯的过程!一个独立坚强的过程,一个自我成长的过程,只要咬咬牙坚持下去,有一天你会发现,这些现在让你无所适从的东西,全都是小CASE,加油,你行的。!
    This is a necessary process of growing up, during which you will be much stronger and accustomed of them, Just keep persistence ! one day you will find, It is no need to worry about those make you blank any more. Come on ! you are the best !
    2014-04-18
  • Micheal-hung
    What doesn't kill you make you stronger .You are the only one that help yourself.Just be stronger !
    2014-04-17
  • 浠水速度(楚商协会)
    so many peoples
    2014-04-16
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